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What Selling REALLY is (and Why You are Already Doing It)

June 02, 20253 min read

What Selling REALLY is (and Why You are Already Doing it)

One thing that trips up so many of us in business is the idea that we have to be a "salesperson".

Selling doesn't need to feel spammy, scripted or pushy. Honestly ... it SHOULDN'T feel that way at all.

If you ever thought, "I am just not good at selling" I want you to know that is just not true.

You are already good at selling - you just have been shown a version that doesn't match your life and your values.

You Have Been Selling Since Day One

Think back to when you were a baby. You didn't have words, scripts or strategies... but you still got what you needed (and more!). You cried, made your needs known, and someone responded.

That was your first ever sales conversation!

Selling is simply communicating a need or want ... and offering support. And guess what? You are already doing this in so many ways in every day life.

Selling Isn't What You Have Been Told

It is not about throwing out website links, sending cold messages or copy and pasting that script your upline gave you.

Real Selling looks like

  • Helping someone notice a struggle

  • Offering a solution that you believe in

  • Giving them space to decide if it's the right fit

It is about real conversations, not cookie cutter strategies. You don't need a script. You don't need fancy tech or AI to sound like someone else. You just need to connect with your people the same way you already do with your kids, your friends and your community.

A Shift in Mindset Changes Everything

When you stop trying to sound like someone else and start sharing from your own voice, things will start to shift.

You feel more confident.
Your content feels more authentic.
Your connections get stronger.

Ask yourself:

Am I talking about the product - or am I talking to the person reading it?

That one question can change how your next post feels and connects with your reader. (and you will feel better about sharing it)

If this shifted something for you - come tell me in our Facebook Community, Your Solution Space!

I would love to hear what resonated with you, what questions you have or what kind of support you are craving next. Let's make selling feel like something you want to do not something you have to do.

Want Help Sharing in a Way That Feels Good?

If you have been second guessing your words or wondering how to say things in a way that feels like you ... you are so not alone. That is what we do in the All Access Chat and All Access Bundle

Inside you get real time support from me, honest feedback without judgement and practical help based on what YOU need right now. No scripts. No pressure. Just support that meets you where you are.

You don't need to be great at selling. You just need to care about helping and serving. If you made it this far I know you do!

👉 Click here to learn more about the All Access Chat

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